Thursday, February 23, 2012

Semoga arwah adik Faris tenang disana...

Saya copy entry ini dari blog mr mazidul.... Takziah untuk keluarga arwah adik faris...semoga tenang disana dan semoga keluarga arwah tabah dan terus tabah...Allah SWT lebih menyayanginya...

"Salam Mazidul, Faris telah pergi buat selama-lamanya. Mohon maklumkan kepada semua, wang sumbangan telah mencukupi untuk menjelaskan bil hospital'

Itu pesanan ringkas dihantar kepada saya oleh ayah Faris pada jam 10.18 pagi tadi.

Takziah Sham, Zuraine dan ahli keluarga.

Ternyata Allah lebih sayangkan Faris Nur Daniel, di syurgalah tempat anak itu, InsyaAllah.

Mewakili keluarga Faris, saya ingin merakamkan ucapan jutaan terima kasih kepada setiap pembaca blog ini dan semua sudi menyumbang, membantu membiayai kos rawatan arwah sewaktu dirawat selama 23 hari.



p/s : airmata tak dapat menahan..minggu ni minggu kesedihan...sama-sama kita doakan arwah adik faris dirahmatiNya..

Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Kau dah kawen..?? belumm..?? dah..?? meh baca ni kalau kau berperasaan....

baca sampai habis tahuuu ... :)

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.
The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.
This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.
I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.
My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.
On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.
On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.
Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.
Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.
But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.
She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.
That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed -dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….
The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.
So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!
If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you.
If you do, you just might save a marriage. Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.

p/s : bila kita terlalu memandang sesuatu yg dah lama dengan kita dengan pandangan yang enteng maka kita akan mula dan mudah membenci...tapi dalam tempoh yang lama itu apa yg kita pandang enteng itulah yang banyak berkorban untuk kita... manusia mudah lupa bak kata Tun Dr Mahathir..tapi biasanya penyesalan akan membawa merana dalam hidup kita bila kita sedar ianya sudah terlambat....

kredit to mr rohaizad dan carca-marba

wordless wednesday #13 - chentaoven cuppies

Sunday, February 12, 2012

Lagu Ibu - Rafly (Ost. Hafalan Shalat Delisa)

Lembut kukenang, kasihmu ibu

di dalam hati ku kini menanggung rindu
kau tabur kasih seumur masa
bergetar syahdu, ooh di dalam nadiku

9 bulan ku dalam rahimmu
bersusah payah, oh ibu jaga diriku
sakit dan lelah tak kau hiraukan
demi diriku, oh ibu buah hatimu

tiada ku mampu, membalas jasamu
hanyalah do'a oh di setiap waktu
oh ibu tak henti kuharapkan do'amu (2x)
mengalir di setiap nafasku (2x) 

ibuuuuuuuuuuuuuu........... (3x)

Lembut kukenang, kasihmu ibu
di dalam hati ku kini menanggung rindu
engkau tabur kasih seumur masa
bergetar syahdu oh di dalam nadiku

indah bercanda denganmu ibu
di dalam hati ku kini slalu merindu
sakit dan lelah tak kau hiraukan
demi diriku, oh ibu buah hatimu

tiada ku mampu, membalas jasamu
hanyalah doa oh di setiap waktu
oh ibu tak henti kuharapkan doamu (2x)
mengalir di setiap nafasku (2x

ibuuuuuuuuuu........ (3x)

“Allahummaghfirlii waliwaa lidayya warhamhumaa kamaa rabbayaanii shaghiiraa”

sumber SINI

lagunya boleh download SINI yea  

Saturday, February 11, 2012

Day 18 - Your Zodiac Sign & if you think it fits your Personality


erm kurang percaya bintang personaliti ni..hehehehe...
cuma saya berbintang libra...
seimbang...?hehehehe...jalan still imbangannya baguslah.

Friday, February 10, 2012

Karya Agung

bila jumpa dengan anak-anak buah yang berderet maksu kena kreatif dalam nak menangani kerenah depa ni..hehehehe...sebab maksunya suka lukisan so anak buah pon kena heret jugak..dengan paksu pon kena join jugak...

so misi pertama...cari drawing paper banyak-banyak dari stor...singgah kedai beli pemadam, pengasah dan pensil sekotak... pakat nak bagi sorang satu kalau tak berebut...pencil warna sekotak...
koleksi maksu sekotak besar dah kena kidnap ke sabah...adik yg bongsu berkenan bawak balik sekotak..tau2 dah takde...sedih jugak sebab banyak kenangan tu..bukan murah jugak nak beli satiap satu tu..dalam kotak tu ade pencil kaler.drawing marker.drawing pen.pencil arang hitam dan putih...krayon..poster colour....huhuhu....
takpelah nanti beli dan kumpul balik sikit-sikit...

so anak buah semua dibawah jagaan maksu...makanya memang bergelempangan memasing dengan kertas dan tools...paksu suh cari tempat duduk masing-masing yang selesa...
hehehehehe...semua nya kusyuk...yang bising-bising tu biasalah..tu pon sebab dok panggil camne..maksu ni camne......tapi memang kagum dengan hasil tu...paksunya siap suh tulis nama.sekolah mane...kelas mane...kalau ada nama cikgu sekali...

jom tengok hasil karya anak-anak buah saya,....

Nurain (teratai)
Sekolah sungai besi 1

Nur Wardina bt Erol Hisham
Sekolah Kebangsaan Seri Suria
4 Usaha
Cikgu Noorazly

Siti NurSyafia bt Heirol Effendy
Sekolah Kebangsaan Seksyen 7, Shah Alam
3 Universiti Mara
Puan Nadia Haizan

Nur Waheeda bt Erol Hisham
Sekolah Kebangsaan Seri Suria

NorHakimi Zidan bin Heirol Effendy
Tadika Pasti Nurul Iman, Shah Alam

Siti NurSyahada bt Heirol Effendy
Tadika Pasti Nurul Iman, Shah Alam

Siti Nursyahira bt Heirol Effendy
Sekolah Kebangsaan Seksyen 7, Shah Alam
1 uitm

ni paksu punya.... bakat boleh digilap..hehehehe

ni maksu punya...skill dan lari banyak
kena banyak practice lagi..huhuhuhu...
Medium : charcoal

besoknya kami bawak budak-budak ni pergi jelajah 
Balai Seni Lukis Negara....seronok depa dan pay attention bila maksu terangkan maksud satu-satu drawing yang ada..hehehehe

dari kiri Siti Nursyahira :: Siti NurSyafia :: Siti NurSyahada :: Nur Wardina  :: Nur Waheeda :: Nurain (Teratai)

NorHakimi Zidan

masing-masing ada karektor dan kerenah berbeza...
tapi Alhamdulillah semua dan tahu maksu dan paksu punya style...
so kalau offer sape nak ikut tu memang semua nakkkk...
memang sorang kena duduk depan kat maksulah...hehehe

Day 17 - A picture of your room.

alamak...hahahaha..takde pulak...

jap eh *godek folder*

gambar bilik tidor time kawen dulu aci dok...
sekarang punya dah bersifat "private"
aci kan....??

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Day 16 - A song that reminds you of a best friend

"Graduation (Friends Forever)"

And so we talked all night about the rest of our lives
Where we're gonna be when we turn 25
I keep thinking times will never change
Keep on thinking things will always be the same
But when we leave this year we won't be coming back
No more hanging out cause we're on a different track
And if you got something that you need to say
You better say it right now cause you don't have another day
Cause we're moving on and we can't slow down
These memories are playing like a film without sound
And I keep thinking of that night in June
I didn't know much of love
But it came too soon
And there was me and you
And then we got real blue
Stay at home talking on the telephone
And we would get so excitedand we'd get so scared
Laughing at ourselves thinking life's not fair
And this is how it feels

As we go on
We remember
All the times we
Had together
And as our lives change
From whatever
We will still be
Friends Forever

So if we get the big jobs
And we make the big money
When we look back now
Will our jokes still be funny?
Will we still remember everything we learned in school?
Still be trying to break every single rule
Will little brainy Bobby be the stockbroker man?
Can Heather find a job that won't interfere with her tan?
I keep, keep thinking that it's not goodbye
Keep on thinking it's a time to fly
And this is how it feels

La, la, la, la:
Yeah, yeah, yeah
La, la, la, la:
We will still be friends forever

Will we think about tomorrow like we think about now?
Can we survive it out there?
Can we make it somehow?
I guess I thought that this would never end
And suddenly it's like we're women and men
Will the past be a shadow that will follow us 'round?
Will these memories fade when I leave this town
I keep, keep thinking that it's not goodbye
Keep on thinking it's a time to fly

lirik sangat kena dengan kehidupan kita all my bff masa sekolah rendah sampai sekolah menengah,..then bff masa universiti...
aku memang gila rindu zaman kita dulu...
sekarang kita semua dah jauh dan ada life masing-masing..
kalau jumpa pon sebulan sekali tak tentu...
apepon korang tetap dihati selamanya...

wordless wednesday #11 - Terap Nilai Murni

Friday, February 3, 2012

Cuti yang panjang makanya.....


tapi sempena Maulidur Rasul hari ahad ni mari sama-sama hayati maksudnya...


Maulidur Rasul (Arab: kelahiran Rasul) adalah hari bersejarah keputeraan Nabi Muhammad. Hari ini jatuh pada hari ke-12 bulan Rabiul Awal sempena kelahiran Nabi yang jatuh pada pada Isnin (Dari hadith riwayat Muslim, 8/25), 12 Rabiul Awal Tahun Gajah bersamaan dengan 23 April 571. Baginda adalah nabi terakhir yang diutus oleh Allah Subhanahu Wataala. Tapak kelahiran baginda pula kini mempunyai satu bangunan kecil yang dikenali sebagaiMaulid Nabi.
Setiap tahun pada hari itu, umat Islam di seluruh dunia akan mengadakan majlis memperingati keputeraan Nabi Muhammad s.a.w dengan mengadakan beberapa acara seperti perarakan, ceramah dan sebagainya. Banyak kelebihan dan keistimewaan yang akan dikurniakan oleh Allah Subhanahu Wataala kepada mereka yang dapat mengadakan atau menghadiri majlis Maulidur Rasul.
Kita dapat lihat betapa besarnya kelebihan orang yang memuliakan majlis keputeraan Nabi Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, kerana bila berniat sahaja hendak mengadakan Maulud Nabi, sudah pun dikira mendapat pahala dan dimuliakan. Sememangnya bernazar untuk melakukan sesuatu yang baik merupakan doa dan dikira amal soleh.
Jelas kepada kita bahawa pembalasan Allah Subhanahu Wataala terhadap kebaikan begitu cepat sehinggakan terdetik sahaja di hati hendak berbuat kebaikan, sudah Allah SWT akan memberi pembalasan yang tiada ternilai. Seseorang yang beriman, kuat bersandar kepada Allah, ketika di dalam kesusahan dia tetap tenang dan hatinya hanya mengadu kepada Allah dan mengharapkan pertolongan dan kasih sayang Allah Subhanahu Wataala.
Keberkatan mengadakan Majlis Maulud itu bukan sahaja didapati oleh orang yang mengadakan majlis itu, tetapi seluruh ahli rumah atau orang yang tinggal di tempat itu turut mendapat keberkatannya.

Terdapat juga pelbagai nama disebut dalam bahasa lain bagi Maulidur Rasul.
Nama lain bagi Maulidur Rasul.
Mawlid an-Nabī
"Kelahiran Nabi"
Milād an-Nabī
Arab dan Urdu
"Kelahiran Nabi"
Mevlid-i Şerif
"Kelahiran yang dirahmati"
Mawlūd-e Sharīf
Urdu dan Dari
"Kelahiran yang dirahmati
Zadruz-e Payambar-e Akram
"Kelahiran yang agung/yang dirahmati"
Eid al-Mawlid an-Nabawī
"Pesta kelahiran Nabi"
"Pesta kelahiran Nabi"
Mawlid en-Nabaoui Echarif
"Kelahiran Nabi yang dirahmati"
el Mūled (en-Nabawi)/Mūled en-Nabi
"Kelahiran (Nabi)/Kelahiran Nabi"
Yawm an-Nabī
"Hari Nabi"
"Kelahiran pesuruh Allah"
Maulid Nabi
"Kelahiran Nabi"
Maulud Nabi
"Kelahiran Nabi"
Meeladu Nabi
"Kelahiran Nabi"
Nabi/Mahanabi Jayanti
"Kelahiran Nabi (yang agung)"

Thursday, February 2, 2012

K.A.R.M.A itu satu pembalasan atau pengajaran..?

nak kata ape..
kehidupan kita ni umpama duduk dalam gelungan bulat...
hari ni pusing duduk bawah...
esok lusa pusing lagi duduk tengah-tengah...
kalau ada 'ong' pusing-pusing...terus duduk atas...
tak berapa 'ong' duduk tengah² statik..hehehehe

ada orang berpendapat biasalah adat dunia kejap atas..kejap bawah...
tapi ada juga orang berpendapat yang ini semua KARMA

** (Menurut ajaran Buddhaundang-undang karma, menyatakan: `bagi setiap peristiwa yang berlaku, akan disusuli oleh peristiwa yang lain yang berlaku akibat peristiwa pertama, dan peristiwa kedua ini akan membawa nikmat atau sebaliknya bergantung kepada kepada sebab musabab peristiwa pertama.' Sekiranya peristiwa pertama berlaku bukan disebabkan nafsu, kerakusan dan sifat-sifat yang buruk maka pembuatnya akan mendapat kenikmatan dan kebahagiaan. Manakala jika peristiwa pertama adalah disebabkan nafsu dan segala sifat yang buruk, maka pembuatnya akan menerima padah.
Menurut Chandogya Upanishad salah satu kitab di dalam agama Hindu, doktrin karma menyebut bahawa mereka yang bersifat terpuji akan dimasukkan kedalam rahim baik kaumBrahmin, Kshatriya, atau Vaisya; tetapi mereka yang bersifat tercela akan masuk ke dalam rahim busuk seekor anjing, khizir atau pariah.
Dengan kata lain, setiap manusia harus bertanggungjawab atas segala yang dilakukan dan akan menerima balasannya yang setimpal.) sumber

tapi itu ikut pendapat masing-masinglah..macam aku..setiap apa yang berlaku dalam hidup kita ni ada hikmahnya.. DIA sahaja yang tahu sebab apa sesuatu tu berlaku...dan hikmah tu memang takleh nak nampak segera...